The Catholic Church's papal conclave – the intriguing smoke-signaled process of selecting a new pope – represents history's most enduring succession system. Whatever your feelings about Catholicism itself, there's something remarkable about an organization that has weathered 2,000 years of transitions.

So what can we learn from this process? Quite a lot, as it turns out. This is the first article in a series of six, with this first article exploring the foundational structure and process elements of the conclave, as well as examining how having pre-established processes, deliberative space, and clear closure rituals benefit succession planning.

The papal conclave, despite its dramatic flaws, creates conditions for relatively healthy succession politics. It doesn't eliminate human ambition, factional interests, or information asymmetries – but it channels them in ways that typically prevent catastrophic outcomes.

What if we designed succession processes that acknowledged political realities instead of pretending they don't exist? What if we created structures that channeled political energy toward institutional health rather than factional victory?

This isn't about importing red hats and secret ballots into your boardroom. It's about learning from a system that has managed succession politics – however imperfectly – for two millennia.

Every person’s experience is different when it comes to leaving a job, but I’ve seen a lot of people try to make a job work long after they realized it wasn’t a good fit–mostly because they didn’t want to disappoint anyone or let people down at work. 

But your first priority must always be your own wellness, so this article is all about how to protect your heart before and during the decision to leave a job, especially if you want to Leave Well.

81 percent of workers say they will be looking for workplaces that support mental health in the future. Transitions are part of that support. When we ignore how people leave, we are also ignoring how people stay well.

Have you ever noticed how much energy we pour into beginnings like onboarding, welcome lunches, and new initiatives, but how often we overlook the endings?

Most of us don’t stay at our first job. We’ve left roles. We’ve stayed behind after a colleague moved on. So why are we still so uncomfortable talking about departures?

Strategic planning gets filled with what’s urgent, while the important work of preparing for transitions falls lower and lower on the list. Until a moment comes and it will come when you’re suddenly navigating grief, confusion, and a thousand unanswered questions.

Here’s the truth: interim leadership doesn’t just buy time. It offers clarity. And succession planning isn’t about predicting the future. It’s about stewarding it.

We can use practice and ritual to help address burnout in the workplace. If your gut is telling you that you need something different, what practices and rituals can you start working on today to help support that future decision?

The number one topic I’m asked to speak on is values. Yet, more times than I can count, when I ask organizational leaders about their values I often receive blank looks in response. 

Values are not just words up on the wall–they are essential to a nonprofit organization’s operations, along with a mission and vision that speaks to what we’re here to do, how we do it, and how we’ll know when we’ve accomplished our goals.

Leaving a job is hard enough for those of us with healthy coping skills and boundaries. It can be a minefield of emotional navigation for folks with a history of people-pleasing. People-pleasing isn’t just being a “yes man” and volunteering for more than one’s fair share. It’s often based in long-seated trauma. You’ve probably heard of the “fight or flight” response, but there are two other possibilities when facing danger–freeze and fawn.

When it comes to Leaving Well, I help organizations prepare for leadership gaps, but still feel strongly that you can Leave Well even when you’re an individual who has been fired or made redundant. 

Losing your job is one of the most stressful things we can experience–whether you are fired, laid off, or in some other way dealing with a loss of income and benefits. This is a time that brings up an immense spectrum of reactions big and small. You may feel depressed and disappointed. You may have intense worry, fear, or grief. You may also feel a sense of failure, confusion, and anger. All of them are valid! 

Unfortunately, many of us never learned how to acknowledge, process, and talk about difficult emotions. And if we can’t speak about what we’re going through, we can perpetuate the stress and grief of job loss rather than working through it.

I recently spoke with author Dr. Jaiya John about the individual ways that people connect in workplaces and our global obligations of mutual care between all living things. His book Your Caring Heart: Renewal for Helping Professionals and Systems and his work centers indigenous teachings about mutuality, care, and community. As a social psychologist, he has spent years visiting organizations and institutions that reached out to him for support with staff morale, burnout, and an overall sense of unwellness–this is the work that led to Your Caring Heart.

I know enough to be dangerous: When someone, typically in a position of authority, has basic competency in doing something, but they are unwilling to admit they don’t have the necessary knowledge or expertise for the task at hand.

Not only is this phrase a load of nonsense that showcases a dangerous knowledge gap, I believe that “I know enough to be dangerous” is actually a tool of weaponized incompetence.

We know about exit interviews, but they take place only at the end of an employee’s tenure and often don’t result in any cultural impact. They’re a formality on both sides. The stay interview supports your team by staying connected with them at multiple touchpoints throughout the year.

After action reviews are powerful for organizations, especially when sunsetting a program, when a project team is wrapping up their work, or when a consultant team is ending their support of the organization. Not only is this an important opportunity to reflect on the program’s lifecycle, it also provides valuable ways to understand its impact, and learn from the experience to inform future initiatives. We have to look back to look forward.

The classic Eisenhower Matrix gets a Leaving Well twist in my latest article. Organized by importance and urgency, this matrix is a great tool for prioritizing tasks and time management, whether you’re strategizing your nonprofit’s funding goals or figuring out the best time to do your laundry.